Saturday, 27 December 2014

Pitfalls in prayer 1

"If I wished to humble anyone, I should ask him about his prayers. I know nothing to compare with this topic for its sorrowful self confessions."
~J Oswald Chambers

“And he went a little farther, and fell on his face, and prayed, saying, O my Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me: nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt. And he cometh unto the disciples, and findeth them asleep, and saith unto Peter, What, could ye not watch with me one hour? Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak. He went away again the second time, and prayed, saying, O my Father, if this cup may not pass away from me, except I drink it, thy will be done. And he came and found them asleep again: for their eyes were heavy.”
Matt 26:39-43

Over the years, in my personal prayer walk, I have noted two things that are pitfalls, drawbacks, snares and snags to my advancement in the discipline of true prayer. They are both lessons of Gethsemane:

A lack of understanding of God's will, and a weak body- flesh.

a. A lack of understanding of God's will. '...not my will...'

Jesus prayed the way He did in the garden because He understood and surrendered to God’s will. The key to praying amiss is a lack of understanding of the will of God.

And this is the confidence that we have toward Him, that if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us.
And if we know that He hears us, whatever we ask, we know that we have the petitions that we desired of Him.
1Jn 5:14 -15

The primary pitfall in prayer is a lack of understanding of God’s will. That is the reason why we ask amiss- like a child asking his father for a jack-knife to pick his teeth, or a 5 year old throwing a fit and insisting that his dad give him the car keys. That is the reason why we wrestle in prayer against flesh and blood and sing pseudo-spiritual war songs against our human enemies. That is why we bind people who move our Bibles from our place on the church pew and live as undiscerning Christians praying unintelligent prayers. A lack of understanding of God’s will.

God’s will is revealed in His word and revealed by His Spirit.

When you do not know what to pray, search God’s word and listen to His Spirit. These 2 principles are key to praying God’s will and obtaining answers to prayer.

i. Find out what God’s word has to say.
True intercessors are men of God’s word. Daniel was a model intercessor, but did not begin to pray until he had ‘understood by the books’- the writings of Jeremiah. If I do not pray God’s word, I do not pray God’s will. ‘Understand by the books’ before you get on your knees. If it is in God’s word for you, then God is committed to it.

One of my fathers in the Lord taught me this early by his practice. I often wondered why, when we were praying, he would ask us to open our Bibles and keep them open to particular scriptures from which we prayed. Praying with my Bible open in my hands is often an experience in understanding the will of God.

In the first year of his reign, I, Daniel, understood the number of the years by books, which came of the Word of Jehovah to Jeremiah the prophet, that he would accomplish seventy years in the desolations of Jerusalem.

And I set my face toward the Lord God, to seek by prayer and holy desires, with fasting, and sackcloth, and ashes.
Dan 9:2-3 

Daniel’s understanding of God’s will by scripture stirred him to pray.

There are quite a few nasty songs in the traditional Pentecostal tradition that reflect this lack of understanding of God’s will. A popular female award-winning West African gospel singer sang, “Yio sa agolo de Port Har(cort).” The gist of that song essentially is that all people who think evil of me, all my enemies, will run mad- turn schizophrenic- and pick tin cans on the highway for several kilometres. That may appeal to our sense of judgement, but is this the will of God in prayer? A Yoruba prayer in song says, “God that directs the wind, direct my enemies in front of a moving trailer.” Another one, complete with choreography- swinging both arms like a moving steam engine- says, “Mo mu railuway gori ota mi lo, faka, fiki, faka” and means “I run over and crush the head of my enemies with a moving train.” Did Jesus call us to crush our human enemies with a locomotive engine, run them over with trailers or call down fire on them?

Jesus’ answer is in Matthew 5:43-48 -
“You have heard that it has been said, You shall love your neighbour, and hate your enemy. But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; That you may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he makes his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust. For if you love them which love you, what reward have you? Do not even the publicans the same? And if you salute your brethren only, what do you more than others? Do not even the publicans so? Be therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.”

For we have not so learnt Christ.

Has Jesus put His Spirit in our hearts to call down fire on unbelieving men and women?

Jesus’ answer is in Luke 9:52-56
“And sent messengers before his face: and they went, and entered into a village of the Samaritans, to make ready for him. And they did not receive him, because his face was as though he would go to Jerusalem. And when his disciples James and John saw this, they said, Lord, wilt thou that we command fire to come down from heaven, and consume them, even as Elias did? But he turned, and rebuked them, and said, Ye know not what manner of spirit ye are of. For the Son of man is not come to destroy men's lives, but to save them. And they went to another village.”

Our battle is not with human beings. Next time you decide to pray that someone should fall down and die, remember that we wrestle principalities and powers, rulers of the darkness of this world and spiritual forces of evil in heavenly places. When we know God’s will, we know how to pray for results.

ii. Allow God's Spirit to teach you God's will.

1 Cor 2:11
For what man knoweth the things of a man, save the spirit of man which is in him? even so the things of God knoweth no man, but the Spirit of God.

The Holy Spirit is the custodian of the will of God. Only in a relationship with Him do we have access to the express will of God.

The Greek word for lusts is the word hedone, from the root ‘to please’, it means sensual delight, desire and pleasure. When we do not ask according to God’s word and by the leading of His Spirit, we ask hedonistically; according to our own lusts. God looks down and sees entire churches holding lustful prayer meetings. Praying to please ourselves and not him; negating the pattern prayer of Christ in which he taught us to say, “your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.”

James 4:3
You make your request but you do not get it, because your request has been wrongly made, desiring the thing only so that you may make use of it for your pleasure. (BBE)

You ask and do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend it in gratifying your lusts. (EMTV)

When you pray for things, you don't get them because you want them for the wrong reason-for your own pleasure. (GW)

You ask and receive not, because you ask amiss, that you may spend it upon your lusts. (MKJV)

Why do you want that car, that house, that piece of land? Is it not to be like the other nations? To make a name? Oh God, deliver us from lustful prayers!

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